Dec 9, 2020
Why do we keep it a secret when pleasure is so fucking beautiful? Following your pleasure and allowing others to witness it can be so healing. Over the weekend, I attended a Play Party with my best friend and roommate Kelley and on today’s episode, we dive into the sacred and loving experience of attending a Temple Night. Join us as we talk through our shared journey with the intimate practices and the sober, conscious, and connected play.
We get deep into:
- What a Play Party really is and why calling it a sex party can be inaccurate
- Why I am able to enjoy this experience even though I am not especially attracted to group sexual activities
- The sensual playground and environment of the party
- How the group acknowledged their level of play, desires, and boundaries for the evening
- Why valuing consent is such a HUGE part of conscious play parties
- The exercises that helped us practice saying yes and no to specific desires
- Allowing a man to touch my goddess dough (belly rolls) and receiving his love for my body
- Opening to receive masculine attention, energy, and love
- How you can honor a man’s desire and still say no to it (without shaming him!)
- Why Kelley chose not to touch at all with one of her partner’s of the night (and what she chose to do instead)
- How Kelley honored her celibacy while still receiving the beauty of the experience
- The RBDSM conscious sex conversation and how important it is to talk about after care
- And so much more juiciness!
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